Everyone is shy when they are young, some people shy because they think they are not good enough, so they are not confident, they will low their heads before others. We call this emotion self-abasement, most people suffer such emotion, we need to conquer it. For me, I was not confident before, I always think that other guys do every thing better than me, until someday, I watch a book. The book says how to conquer self-abasement, I learn that the reason why people feel not confident, it is because they haven’t found their advantages. The book tells that everyone is good at something, we are wrong to compare other people’s advantages with our disadvantages. After I read the book, I understand why I not confident, I should never compare with others, I also have my merit, I should be proud of myself. Let’s raise our heads and be confident.

当我们年轻的时候，每个人都有害羞的时候，一些人害羞是因为他们觉得自己不够好，所以他们不够自信，会在别人面前低下头。我们把这类情感称为自卑，大部分人都有这种情绪，我们需要克服。对于我来说，我以前也不自信，总是觉得别人做什么都比我好，直到有一天，我看了一本书。这本书说的是如何克服自卑，我知道了人们为什么不自信，那是因为他们还没有发现自己的优点。书上说每个人都有擅长的东西，我们错在将我们的短处拿去比别人的长处。看了这本书后，我懂得了自己自卑的原因，我不应该和别人比，我也有闪光点，应该为自己自豪。让我们抬起头和自信起来吧。